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 कॉलेज के दूसरे साल के शुरुआती दिनों की बात है। एक दिन मैं लाइब्रेरी में पढ़ रहा था। तभी एक लड़की मेरे पास आई और मुझसे बोली," हाय आशीष! एक हेल्प चाहिए थी।"  वो गुंजन थी। हालांकि वो मेरी ही क्लास में पढ़ती थी, इससे पहले गुंजन से बात कभी नहीं हुई थी। मैने कहा," हां बताओ"। वो बोली," तुम मुझे इस साल का सिलेबस अच्छे से समझा सकते हो?" मुझे गुंजन का यह आग्रह काफी साधारण लगा। खैर, मैने उसे सिलेबस के बारे में सबकुछ बता दिया। उसके बाद हम दोनों ने औपचारिक रूप से अपना अपना परिचय दिया।        अगले कुछ दिनों में हमारी दोस्ती हो गई और इसका श्रेय गुंजन को ही जाता था। वो इस तरह कि चूंकि मैं खुद काफी शर्मीला स्वभाव का था, बातचीत की पहली कोशिश गुंजन ही करती थी। धीरे धीरे मैं भी उसके साथ सहज हो गया। इस तरह दोस्ती पक्की होती गई।      उन दिनों मैं कॉलेज के बाद मेट्रो पकड़ कर सीधे कोचिंग जाया करता था। करोल बाग स्टेशन मेरा गंतव्य हुआ करता था जहां पहुंचने में करीब एक घंटा लग जाता था। एक दिन गुंजन आई और मुझसे कहा," आशीष, आज मैं भी तुम्हारे साथ मेट्रो में जाऊंगी। ...
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 (शाम भी थी धुआँ धुआँ हुस्न भी था उदास उदास दिल को कई कहानियाँ याद सी आ के रह गईं) दिल्ली विश्वविद्यालय के एक कॉलेज में स्नातक डिग्री के लिए मैने अपना दाखिला करवाया। कॉलेज में जीवन कैसा होता है, इसको लेकर मेरी विभिन्न तरह की धारणाएं और कुछ आशाएं थीं। लेकिन इनमें जो मुख्य था वह यह कि शायद आगामी तीन वर्षों में कोई प्रेमिका मिल जाए। ये वाक्य लिखते हुए मुझे अभी अजीब तरह की शर्म आ रही है जिसे आजकल लोग "cringe" कहते हैं। लेकिन अब जो सच है सो है।     कहानी आगे बढ़ाने से पहले थोड़ी भूमिका दे दूं। कॉलेज से पहले मेरा लड़कियों से बोलचाल बिलकुल न्यूनतम रहा। 12वीं कक्षा में कोचिंग में एक "crush" हुआ करती थी। लेकिन उससे कभी बात करने की हिम्मत नहीं जुटा पाया। संयोग से एक दिन वो मेरे पीछे वाले बेंच पे बैठी थी। तब उसने मुझसे कहा था, "जरा साइड होना, मुझे सामने बोर्ड नहीं दिख रहा।" बस इतनी बात हुई थी। कक्षा 5 से 10 तक मैं ऑल बॉयज रेजिडेंशियल स्कूल में था।       खैर, वापस कॉलेज आते हैं। कॉलेज शुरू होने के 10-11 दिन बाद मेरा ध्यान एक लड़की पे गया। उसका...
The Art of Art (Advisory: For 18+ only) " My anaconda wants none unless you got buns hun ". These are part of a very popular song  rap (Baby Got Back) released in 1992, courtesy  Sir Mix-A-Lot. The popularity sustained almost through two whole decades and inspired another composition by Nicki Minaj, titled ‘Anaconda’. Now, those who can’t make out what does the quoted phrase mean, may Lord bless thy innocent soul! And those who have well received the message and are smiling sheepishly, worry not, for you alone are not with a dirty mind. Together, atone we shall brothers!     When I first heard the phrase I was fairly confused as to how to react. There was definitely a sense of shame, of listening to something so raunchy and very ably unlocking the cryptic message. Yet, I could not help myself admiring symbolism used by Sir Mix-A-Lot. Then, I was even more surprised to find out how popular the rap has been across generations. More interestingly it reminded me of ...
A Vomit of thoughts 6:21 PM, 2nd April 2023 It’s a Sunday evening and I’m bored.          The digital technology around us has made our lives so easy. Easy to forget that urgent task that you need to be doing. Easy to get a dopamine high from something as silly as scrolling through other people’s pictures and whatnot. I am writing this blog after (re)watching 2 episodes of ‘The Office’, then reading IPL commentary on cricbuzz, then listening to an AP Dhillon number, and  then watching Alia Bhatt in a song from ‘2 states’ (Oh! that yellow saree!). Dopamine hits, one after another. But this is not a how-to-avoid-getting-distracted or how-to-be-more-productive blog or a listicle or anything of that sort.           Not that people care but I am writing after a very long time, almost 3 months. What took me so long? Procrastination and laziness,for the most of it. I told you, this is not a productivity-hack article.  Another rea...
 SECOND MARRIAGES “Second marriage is the triumph of hope over experience.”   - Oscar Wilde Allow me to draw a parallel. Between a second marriage and a new year.  Marrying again is no ordinary matter. It is an act of giving oneself another chance, despite all the disappointment and hurt in the past. In a very popular Netflix series “Money Heist” , Berlin (an important character) had three or four failed marriages. When mocked of his failed marriages, he comes with a very interesting reply. He says that his marriages show how he dared to believe in power of love again and again, no matter his past experiences.           Every time a new year is around we get excited. One of the reasons is the fact that we get to have a fresh start. “New year, new me”. Although from a very objective point 1st of January is just another day. But we have associated a great deal of symbolism with this day. We forgive ourselves for all the mistakes we committed pa...
MOVE 78 ‘Go’ is an ancient Chinese board game. It is similar to game of Chess in that it is played by two players at a time and it too requires intelligence, and intelligence alone. However, Go is much more complicated than chess. It is not so because of some weird set of rules or conditions. Rather the rules and objective of this game are very simple. Google it. The number of possible board configurations in Go is more than number of atoms present in the universe. No game of Go has been played twice, ever!          In March 2016, the then World Go Champion Lee Sedol (holder of 18 world titles) was about to play against an opponent like never before: a computer, powered by Artificial Intelligence (AI) named AlphaGo. Lee was confident of defeating AlphaGo in all five games that were to be played. Reason behind his confidence was the fact that the game of Go at its highest level requires  creativity and intuition. How can a computer be creative and how can it...
RESERVATION CONUNDRUM The Supreme Court of India has upheld the validity of 103rd Constitutional Amendment 2019. The amendment provided for 10% reservation in educational institutions and government jobs for ‘Economically Weaker Sections’(EWS). Before this, the provision of reservation was only for those communities who were regarded as ‘backward classes’. This backwardness is measured by level of education in the community and their ascribed status in the caste-divided society. So the reservation was provided for the communities which came under Scheduled Castes(SC), Scheduled Tribe (ST) and Other Backward Classes. And these communities, since they already are eligible for reservation, are not eligible for the EWS reservation. Essentially, a new quota of reserved seats has been created which are accessible only to poor from ‘forward castes’ and not to poor of backward classes. Some deem this step as reservation for forward classes.  This new legislation has led to many questions. ...